Love is a beautiful thing, and it’s even more beautiful when you get to share it with someone who loves you back. Few things compare to the utter satisfaction that stems from knowing that what you give is undoubtedly returned by the one you give it to. It is certainly the meaning of bliss — no doubt, no fear, just you giving and receiving love. how to make your husband feel special.
Now that you’re married to the man of your dreams and you both are committed to making fond memories together, you’re probably searching for more ways on how to make your husband feel special. This is understandable, especially if he seems to spend most of his time doing things to make you smile and you are left wondering what you ever did right to deserve a gem such as him. Maybe it’s the thoughtful meals he puts together for you and the kids while you’re still in bed, or the spontaneous gifts he gives you for no reason at all, or maybe it’s the way he adores you like the most important factor in his life. Regardless of what it is, this man surely deserves to know that he is loved and appreciated.
At this juncture, it’s important to know your husband’s love language and speak it to him. For example, if his love language is acts of service, mere words will not suffice. Study your man to know what he best responds to and give him just that. However, this is not to say that there’s no room for creativity. Certainly not!
Check out 8 ways you can make your husband feel special…
#1. Ask him for advice
Men like to feel needed. So whenever you can, ask your man for advice. It will remind him that you value his wisdom, which will certainly make him feel special. For instance, simple advice about how to deal with a situation at work or in business may be what takes him to the moon.
#2. Appreciate him
Who doesn’t love to feel appreciated? Make a habit of appreciating your husband when he does things for you, or not. You will find that he will go the extra mile to impress you. Thank him for how hard he works for you and the kids, or how he helped to massage your back six months ago. The more you appreciate your man, the more special he feels.
#3. Brag about him to people when he can hear
If you want your husband to swell with pride like an inflated balloon, then sing his praises to your friends, loved ones, and to whom it may concern. He will conquer the world and lay it at your feet.
#4. Respect him
The male ego is something women will never understand. No wonder the saying goes “men are from Mars and women are from Venus.” Love to many men is wrapped up in a form of respect, give him that and it would automatically translate to love. This is one sure way to make your husband feel special.
#5. Make his favorite meal
They say “the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.” Even if your husband is not a foodie, he will appreciate his favorite meal waiting for him at the end of a busy day.
#6. Gift him randomly
Where your treasure is, there will your heart be also. It is a fallacy to claim to love a person and withhold giving to them. This type of gift doesn’t find its worth in the currency spent but in the thoughtfulness.
#7. Share in his hobbies
We all know that couple who always fight because the man loves watching sports in his spare time. Yes, we sure do. Try showing interest in his hobbies or respect him enough to give him space to enjoy them without nagging or complaining. He’ll be thrilled and when next he hangs out with his boys, he would brag about you and they’ll listen in awe and admiration.
#8. Ask him
Sometimes, your gestures go unappreciated not because your husband is self-absorbed or hard to please, but because you’re not loving him his way. Take the time to ask him the things that would make him feel loved by you. It’ll surprise you how simple they are and he’s not asking for the milky way galaxy. It’s really in the little things.
When it’s all said and done, home is where the heart is. You have forever with the love of your life, keep exhausting your options.
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